The Paradox Of Sexuality: Self-Love Versus Hedonism

EXCERPT OF CELINEK’ S BOOK (TEASER)

The topic of sexual Liberty is a very daunting one as each individual has his own definition about it. To sort this fractal-like equation out we ought first to ask: what is Liberty to start with? A complex question with a simple answer: Liberty is symbolized by non-coercive actions occurring between people. But since there must be a resistance for Self Awareness to expand, coercion does exist within, in the motion of the Fear of Being. The less Fear of Being, the more Liberty – or Freedom – and not only sexually but in the broad sense. To objectively know one’ Self has to remain a primary drive at all time otherwise any experience will just reawake the same dilemmas and as it often is the case, even exacerbate them. It is quite common, however, to engage in some hedonistic pursuit for a while then all of a sudden, and no matter how pleasurable the latter is, run into an dilemma demanding to requestion the very experience. This happens when Self Awareness can no longer expand due to the depletion of the inner energy flow, causing a Synchronicity Collapse, which is often perceived as the consequence of other external factors. Everything happens for a reason. Too much positive leads to its opposite – and otherwise.  That is precisely why religious dogmas vilify sexual Liberty but also foresee the possible awakening to full Awareness through  Sexuality as an even bigger menace.

These days, Hedonism seems to be everywhere because Sex always sells, and thus has fallen prey to the Left-Brained society we live in. Despite the so many ‘circles’ offering pleasure, there isn’t much Hedonism in this economic landscape but the opportunity to access a quick boost to cope with the daily routine, though one may encounter a few real Hedonists hanging out at those happenings.  Too often pairs of lovers or spouses mainly choose Hedonism because they either seek to spice up their fading intimacy (relationship could be at stake) or consider the move as authorized cheating to secure the future. If there is any materialistic aim, such as regarding Sex as an investment tool, Hedonism is not going to be fulfilling but rather used as an escape from the Fear Of Being.

Although Sexuality’s primary drive is to learn about Fear and master Self-Love, Hedonism is a path highlighting this even more. The fact is that the quest for Self-Love allows to overcome the temptation to use Sexuality as a power tool and/or be dominated by it.  The only upside is that monetized hedonistic circles   do exist to show why the mainstream attitude towards Sex has to break through its own paradigm — in order to end the monetization of Sex.

Excerpt of The Laws Of Light, Emotions and Sexuality (celinek.net, the forum is still quiet but feel free to sign up)

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