Men and women’s bodies are of a multi-orgasmic nature!
There is quite a lot of controversy these days regarding the benefits of frequent ejaculation vs. semen retention for men. (authentictantra.com)
Society is goal oriented when it comes down to sexuality, and this means that the “orgasm production” is paramount according to our mainstream criteria. One of the main reasons as why porn is a 100 billion dollar thriving industry. Though there is a downside, a steep downside, as time eventually tames sexual appeal. When the fantasy fades away. And quite often this may encourage cheating, promiscuity, if the intellectual bound isn’t strong enough. Bodies are traded (this for that) exposing lust as a material envy. Over time partners view one another as less desirable, also because mates or lovers begin to reveal each other’s flaws. Sexual passion is commonly draining because society teaches that to have a commitment, lovers must be a good sexual match to start with. But too often tensions arise in a relationship because the woman doesn’t really like “having sex” but expects “real love making”. The conscious element in sexuality is merely absent. X-rated movies are so misguiding in that sense.
So what is the altermative?
A real bound is not generated by “sexual action” but the mind. The upside of “semen retention” is that it allows men to master their physical reactions and choose quality over quantity. Sexual energy flow is used for a lasting and sensual seduction as intercourse is regarded as a moment of cosmic celebration. There is no rush to get “there” and bodies move at their own rhythm. Such a man knows that any woman is as multi-orgasmic as he is. As a matter of fact, “semen retention” brings about the end of the conflict between genders since a woman who is sexually fulfilled becomes much less possessive, and that means much less drama — if no more drama at all.
Semen retention improves your sex life.
For men, ejaculation and orgasm are two different things. Mastering “semen retention” helps achieve have full-body, multiple orgasms, with each one rolling into the next. It has even been reported that such orgasms can last several minutes for the man. With the right partner, such men can really develop a unique and faithful bound.
Serial monogamy is a widespread template. People move from a monogamous relationship to the next, and generally without too much questioning themselves. Even though many people would agree that sexuality is important, dysfynctional sexual relationships abound, mainly because they cannot express their own cosmic bound. The average time frame of an intercouse is between 5 and 15 minutes, and this means that many people aren’t happy about their sex lives at all. Fast sex, although exciting will appear disappointing in the long run.
Sexual gratification usually takes longer for a woman to achieve, so women need men who can wait for them to be ready. There lies the advantage to practice “semen retention”.
Nature is very clever: once in the bedroom, it is the man who has to dedicated himself to a woman’s needs, so that he can surrender himself to his own multi-orgasmic nature!
Long story short, men and women alike are multi-orgasmic and this is a secret well hidden, which we are not taught in our goal oriented society. Emotional happiness is found by learning about one’s body and overcoming one’s urges.
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